How to Prepare for Your First Meeting with a Divorce Attorney
Meeting with a divorce attorney for the first time can feel overwhelming, but preparing in advance can make the process smoother and more productive. Here are key steps to help you get ready for that initial consultation.
Consider Counseling Before Proceeding
Before moving forward with divorce, think about whether the issues in your marriage might be resolved through counseling. Counseling can help identify the root causes of marital difficulties and, in some cases, lead to reconciliation. Even if reconciliation isn’t possible, counseling can help both parties process their emotions and make informed decisions.
Assess the Marital Estate: Assets and Debts
Understanding the financial landscape of your marriage is crucial. Before your first meeting, take time to gather information about:
- Assets: Bank accounts, retirement accounts, real estate, vehicles, investments, and business entities.
- Debts: Mortgages, credit card debt, student loans, and other liabilities.
If you’re not familiar with your marital finances, start organizing financial documents and statements. This preparation will save time and help your attorney better understand your situation.
Determine the Grounds for Divorce
In Texas, divorces can be granted on the basis of irreconcilable differences, meaning the marriage has broken down to the point where it cannot be repaired. Consider whether your differences with your spouse are truly irreconcilable or if there is any chance of resolution.
Gather Financial Documentation
The more financial information you can provide, the better. Courts often require detailed disclosures to ensure fairness in dividing assets and debts. Bring documents such as:
- Bank Statements: For all joint and individual accounts.
- Pay Stubs and W2s: To demonstrate income for child support or spousal support calculations.
- Retirement and Investment Account Statements: For all 401(k)s, IRAs, and brokerage accounts.
- Business Records: If you or your spouse own a business, gather financial statements and tax returns.
- Property Records: Titles, deeds, or mortgage statements for real estate.
Even if you don’t have access to all financial documents, bring what you can. Your attorney can help you identify what’s missing and guide you through obtaining the necessary information.
Understand Disclosure Requirements
Many Texas courts require both parties in a divorce to provide comprehensive financial disclosures. These often include:
- A balance sheet of marital assets and debts.
- Income information to calculate child support or spousal maintenance.
Failing to provide this information accurately can delay the process or create legal complications.
What to Expect During Your First Meeting
Your first meeting with a divorce attorney is an opportunity to discuss your situation, ask questions, and learn about the divorce process. Be prepared to:
- Share the reasons for your decision to pursue divorce.
- Provide details about your financial and family situation.
- Discuss your goals for custody, property division, and support.
This initial consultation is also a chance to evaluate whether the attorney is the right fit for your needs.
Schedule Your Consultation Today
Preparing for a divorce can feel daunting, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. At Wadler, Perches, Kerlick, we provide compassionate, experienced legal guidance to help you through this challenging time.
📞 Call or text 979-532-3871 to schedule an appointment. Meetings are available online, in person, or by phone.
With offices in Wharton County, Fort Bend County, and Matagorda County, we proudly serve clients throughout Texas. Let us help you take the first step toward a brighter future.
